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A Promise to My Mom

Share Your Story: Why I Quit Smoking

From Sandee Jones

Updated April 04, 2010

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A Promise to My Mom

My life as a smoker

I started smoking when I was 13 years old. It was the "adult" thing to do and it was considered cool. By the time I was 14 or 15, I was a seasoned smoker. I guess I smoked a pack per day back then? Just can't recall...

Why and how I quit smoking

Because of a family history of heart disease, I began to feel like I might be playing Russian roulette with my life by the time I turned 45.

My elderly Mom had been wanting me to quit smoking for years. One day she brought it up and I told her I would quit if she would make a tape recording of her singing. She is an awesome singer but has no confidence to share her voice openly. I never thought she would do it, but the very next day she presented me with a tape! I had to live up to my promise; I quit cold turkey within the month.

Advice

  • I had to prepare mentally for about a month before I quit smoking.
  • I prepared to own up to my own crankiness during the nicotine withdrawal phase.
  • I smoked my last cigarette one night before I went to bed, knowing it was the last one I would ever smoke.
  • I allowed myself to grieve and cry for the first several days - to mourn the loss of cigarettes in my life.
  • I listened to my iPod constantly!
  • It was easier than I thought to quit.
  • Chewing gum took the place of cigarettes.
  • One thing I'd do differently - I'd fill the void with exercise right away! I gained 25 lbs and am still trying to lose the weight!

Terry Martin, Smoking Cessation Guide, says:

Congratulations, Sandee! The work you did to build a strong foundation for your quit program helped you foster a winning mindset that propelled you forward. Maintain it with a daily dose of gratitude and your freedom will continue to expand in ways that may surprise you.

Thanks for the useful tips you've shared - I have no doubt your story will inspire others to quit smoking, and will bring a warm smile of pride to your mom's face!

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